Stumbling Block or Building Block?

Most responsible parents want to know the friends their kids run with. Who are their parents? Where do they live? Are they “good” kids? Will they be a good influence or will they be a stumbling block and drag our kids down the wrong road?  BUT, how much time do we spend making sure that we, as responsible parents, are not being a stumbling block on their eternal journey?

I was thinking this week about some of the messages we send to our kids that cause them to stumble into believing the lies of the Deceiver:

“Church is for the weak.”

If you are strong and healthy you participate in sports every Sunday. If you aren’t good enough for sports, then there’s church. 

“Jesus is for old people.”

When you are young there are Saturday night sleepovers and late night parties. You can learn more about the Bible and living according to God’s plan when you grow up.

“Going to church makes you a Christian.”

God doesn’t expect us to be perfect, but if we attend church on Sunday that will cover for our behaviors during the week.

I really don’t think we intentionally send these messages to our kids, but have you ever thought of some of the messages our choices infer? The only real way to teach your kids is by intentionally choosing a pattern of living that demonstrates that you are learning, listening and obeying the Father. Don’t try to obey a creed or mimic someone you see as “good.” There is only One that is good. Spend time getting to know Him and He will direct you onto the path you and your family should follow.

Do you want to be a stumbling block to your kids? Nobody does… So be intentional about leading by being a good follower! And make sure you are following the true Leader!

“Jesus said to his disciples:

"Things that cause people to sin are bound to come,

but woe to that person through whom they come.”

Luke 17:1