Two Amazing, Wonderful, Awful Words

There are two words that can completely ruin us. These two words can take control of our minds. They can suck the joy of the most pleasant moment. They can leave us paralyzed, overwhelmed and clueless as to the way out of the darkness in our soul.

These same two words have the power to help us accomplish great things. They empower us to go beyond the boundaries of our logical mind. They spark the imagination and give us the strength to go beyond our wildest dreams.

What are these powerful words? 

WHAT IF…?

In both instances they are spelled exactly the same. The meaning of each word doesn’t change. The difference is in the focus of the one who speaks them.  One is focused on all the negative possibilities; the crisis that could be around the corner; the tragedy that awaits us at any given moment... while the other is focused on all the wonderful possibilities that surround us when we take a step into the unknown.

Parenting is a definite step into the unknown. There are enough “what ifs” in parenting to scare the hair right off your head. Unless, of course, you change your prospective.  Bad things will happen. Chicken pox and head lice; bullies and scraped knees; failed tests and failed morals… these things will make your life miserable. They can cause a breakdown in communication, loud angry voices, loss of sleep and loss of sanity. One the other hand, they give you the occasion to teach and guide and love and show compassion and grace. Ah… what a beautiful opportunity it is! 

Think about it a minute… nothing you are encountering in parenting is a first. Nothing you are struggling through is a surprise to God. Nothing that is challenging you right now as a parent is beyond the power of God to get you through.  He has done some pretty amazing things. He will walk with you and give you what you need because He said so!

Do you realize that every time you try to manage on your own, you are essentially turning your back on God? Did you know that when He formed your child He already had a plan for that child? Do you think for one minute that He will forsake that plan or that child? All you  have to do is let Him lead and He will guide you out of whatever mess those stinky kids get into! 

Now take a deep breath and blow all the worry out! God’s got this! Just don’t forget to keep your focus on the Good, Good Father and make all the “what ifs” a wonderful adventure!